Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Listening



It's always so great when I can spend time alone with our children individually.  It is even more special when they ask directly for time set aside to "talk" or in this case for me to "listen".  Life is so very hectic and complicated, yet fun and fulfilling all at the same time right now.  Do you all remember 7th Grade??!!  I do, and let me tell you I was not even in the same register as my girl right now.  I have to really go to a place to access my 7th Grade file to recall what it was like for me.  My girl is so together, and not in a know-it-all, I got this and you don't kinda way.  No, she is more like apart from God I can do nothing and with Him all things are possible and let's be friends because you are a safe place and I like the way you care about others too.  She is the kind of friend I wish I had growing up, especially in the turbulent tween, teen years.  So, when she asks to go chat after church because she has a lot on her plate, well Fro-yo happens!!  I won't share any of our conversation here, out of respect for her privacy, but it all went well.  We even ended our little date by taking a few shots in the backyard.  She is always taking my photos, so I suggested that she join me.  That's all for now.

 Have a wonderful week!










Linking up with The Pleated Poppy

29 comments:

  1. My dream as a mom is that both of my kids will feel comfortable talking to me about anything as they grow up. You are a good mama! And she sounds like a gem...and she's beautiful too, just like you!

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    1. Thanks friend! It is quite something a cherish dearly.
      Thanks so much for your kind words. I have a feeling that your kids will share their hearts with you also.

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  2. How sweet to have a relationship like that with your daughter. The kind of person she is has to do with her great upbringing. :)

    She looks so much like you!! Both gorgeous!

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    1. Thanks so much! She is the sweetest if I do say so. I am awed by her and I pray that she always remains true to who God made her to be.

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  3. Aaaaaw....Shon, that means you're doing a great job raising her and your kids. I've talked to Grade 7s....believe me...it's kinda scary what they say sometimes.

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    1. I know it, Middle School is tough! We are so grateful that we have had a lovely time so far.
      Thanks for your encouraging words!

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  4. It's nice to hear a sweet mother daughter moment for a junior high age! Lovely photos.

    Marie @ In Our Happy Place

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    1. Thanks so much for your kind words and for stopping by.

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  5. You need to get posting more outfit photos. I LOVE what you are wearing!!!

    Really sweet photos of the two of you. You both have wonderful style.

    bisous
    Suzanne

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    1. Thanks friend! I am working on it, just seems to slip away from me.
      I really appreciate your kind words.

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  6. How fun! And I love that your daughter trusts you and that you trust her.

    The pictures are sweet. She's such a pretty young lady.

    Your hair is growing out! And that hat is all kinds of fab.

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    1. Ha ha, yes my hair is growing and it is out of control some days! LOL
      Thank you for your sweet comments and for stopping by.

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  7. You are gorgeous and in no way look old enough to have a 7th grade child :) Both of you have beautiful smiles. Sounds like you have a close relationship which is awesome. We've officially linked up via Pleated Poppy. KIT

    www.dressed2dnines.com

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    1. Thanks so much for stopping by and for sharing such sweet words with us.

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  8. You are both beautiful! And what a special mother daughter bond! :)

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    1. Thank you and yes I am so thankful for our bond.
      Please stop by again.

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  9. heart to hearts are the best
    i am very lucky that my 20 something boys still want to talk with their mom
    you both look beautiful
    have a fabulous weekend
    Brett

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    1. Thanks so much for your kind comment. We are so blessed to have such bonds with our children.
      Enjoy your week.

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  10. What a great photo shoot and a great relationship you have to cherish! I hope I am that close to my daughter if/when I have kids!
    Carylee | morepiecesofme.com

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    1. Thanks for stopping by! Your words are so kind and encouraging.
      All the best to you!

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  11. lovely pics, lovely you!

    xx
    a possible fantasy
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  12. You daughter sounds like an amazing girl! You must be proud! And she is so gorgeous too...just like her mama :)

    http://www.kaciesklosetblog.com/

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  13. You're daughter is so beautiful inside and out! And so are you!!
    Mother/daughter relationships are the best...I love my mama so!

    xo
    AC

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  14. Oh Shon! I haven't heard from you in ages and then I get two comments per my posts. Yay!!! Thanks for your smile and happiness in your life to me. The Savers deals are coming back. I have to have one more week of nursing my wounds {radiation burn, don't worry I have it under control} and then the posts of deals will return; other posts of fun and family and fantastic deals. Love to you, Renae

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  15. She is sweet and beautiful just like her mama! You both should be so proud of the amazing daughter you have raised! And Shon....both outfits are *FABULOUS*!

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  16. Love the skirt, you look gorgeous ;)
    Followed you on GFC, hope you can follow me back ;)

    besos,
    M
    http://theflowerduet.blogspot.com/

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  17. You are beautiful.
    I really enjoyed des blog.
    Ana

    filhadejose.blogspot.com
    Instagram : anavijf

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